Life is different for everyone. We all have our own unique journey to navigate every single day. Showing compassion or common decency towards one another should be a no-brainer, but it’s hard for some people to do. It takes such negative mental energy to sit there and actually contemplate being mean to others. These type of desperate, attention-seeking people are called bullies.
Yes, bullies. They prey on those that are smaller than them or who are unable to defend themselves. The only way they can make themselves feel good is by picking on others who are less likely to fight back. They are emotionally insecure about themselves. They can’t figure out how to help themselves, so they beat up and torture others. It’s the same thing, day in and day out. They have nothing else better to do than to pick on other people, who are doing something constructive with their lives. They make think so, but there is no strength in being a bully.
For those who have had encounters with bullies, there is nothing wrong with you! You are awesome! Know that you aren’t in this battle alone and there are people you can talk to. Do not let that bully make you think that you are weak or not enough, because you ARE enough! There are people who love you and care about you. Bullies will say anything to try and break you. They are hiding from their own problems and they take them out on others. Please know, there’s nothing wrong with you, it’s something wrong with them! Don’t dare think about ending your life – please find someone to talk to who can help. It’s not the end of the world, because you have so much to give and contribute. Your life is not over! Greatness will come from you, so continue to be your best!
Bullies, get some help. All of you can not just be mean to others, without there being an underlying problem within yourself. Stop showing your insecurities to the same people everyday, making their life a living hell. They aren’t the ones with the issue, you are. Figure out how to solve your problems and leave others alone. There is too much else to focus on, than following the same person around day after day and doing stupid things to them. Get a goal and put your energy into that. Maybe that’ll solve your bully problem and show you that being a bully is not the way to go.
Treat others the way you want to be treated.
Don’t be a bully.