There’s obviously a difference between a worrier and a warrior – warriors are powerful and disciplined. Worriers are doubtful and full of fear. What separates a warrior from a worrier?
A worrier is what most people default to. They worry when they don’t know what else to do. It can be very stressful, but they’re the one who creates the stress.
On the other hand, a warrior is steadfast and strong. Warriors control the situation, not the other way around.
Worriers Are Common
Worriers are uneasy. When things go wrong, they don’t know what to do. They react to situations, as opposed to thoughtfully responding to them.
People who worry, react and make things worse. Instead of solving the problem, they add their own drama to it and magically place the focus on themselves.
Worriers create fear and doubt, naturally.
The only thing that a worrier does successfully, is waste time. They are not ready or prepared to handle tense circumstances. Everything is, “Oh, no!” and “What if (insert negative thought here)?”
Not only do worriers cause anxiety for themselves, they create an unsettling environment. It’s hard to change the energy from negative to positive, but it’s very easy to drag it from positive to negative. That’s what they do.
Worriers stop at no, but that’s where a warrior begins.
Signs of a Warrior
Warriors are people of strength, mentally and physically. No matter what happens, they will figure it out and make it work.
Unlike worriers, warriors bring peace to a situation. If they find themselves in a disturbing scenario, they have the ability to calm things down and develop a strategy to move forward.
Warriors turn their problems into challenges.
The best characteristic about a warrior is that they have discipline. They have the discipline to believe in themselves and to not make excuses. They have the discipline to feed their fears and starve their doubts.
Warriors can motivate and inspire the people around them. Others depend on them to lead and win in every situation. If they don’t win, they don’t accept defeat. They will find their fault, so they can do better next time around.
Being a warrior is a daily practice. It’s not something you’re lucky to be born with – it takes effort and constant development.
Today, being a worrier is common in our society. We have the option to be either one, but some of us don’t have the desire to be a warrior. We’d rather have someone else save us and hope things get better.
Making the impossible happen is what sets the warrior apart from the worrier. In the warrior’s mindset, wanting better leads to doing better.
You have a choice – will you be a worrier or a warrior?
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