It’s common in today’s world to judge someone just by looking at them. As soon as you see someone, there are some type of thoughts that go through your mind. It happens unconsciously, but you should try not to let those first thoughts get in your way of meeting someone new. Speaking courteously to others could lead to learning something, or even a friendship.
You never know who someone really is until you get to know them. One of the most common things you can do is just open your mouth and speak. I’ve seen people who will look dead in your face and not say a word. A simple ‘hello’ is all that’s needed. You can either expand from there, or keep it moving. It’s just the fact of showing common courtesy.
Sometimes, you’re stuck in the line at the store. Some people will strike up a conversation, just to pass time. I’ve found out so much about others this way. You’ll be amazed who you meet, where they’ve been, what they do for a living or where they’re from (just to name a few things). Everyone has a life different from yours – to me, that’s interesting enough on it’s own.
My mother used to tell me, “You never know what someone else is going through in their life, at that particular time”. The older I became, the more I began to see this. Sometimes, all someone needs is a smile or a lame joke to bring some happiness to their day. Words are powerful. Whatever you say can make or break someone at any given moment. It can propel them forward to their best or push them off the ledge. Therefore, use encouraging words. There is always someone who could use them.
People have their own life stories, trials and tribulations, successes and failures. You may learn something from a stranger, just by saying ‘hello’. On the other hand, you may meet a grouch. It doesn’t take anything to speak to someone. Lifelong friendships and marriages have come out of speaking to strangers. Don’t judge anyone – speak and see what happens.